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Ksenia's avatar

Hello Martha!

First of all, I want to thank you from the bottom of my heart for your emails and the stories you share. You are a true inspiration. You're doing an incredible and deeply important job by addressing topics that are rarely discussed in the opera world.

Regarding the theme of your latest message:

What if I only started studying at the academy at age 25? Before that, I studied singing privately, but looking back, the teacher’s technique didn’t really suit my voice. I only realized this when I began formal training at the academy with a different teacher—at the age of 25.

As for the "emergency fund"—if 25 is already considered “not young” for a singer, and you’re expected to have a financial cushion early in life, then we’re talking about starting at 18–20. But how is that even realistic? At 18, I was serving in the IDF. By 23, I had completed a B.Sc. in Chemistry and Biology and started working in industry immediately after graduation. The only “fund” I managed to save was enough to buy a second-hand car so I could get to work, since there was no accessible public transport.

Maybe in the US it’s more common to have a trust fund, though I doubt it’s the norm. In Israel, coming from an average middle-class immigrant family, you don’t have a financial cushion. Opera is one of the most financially unstable careers out there. Without wealthy parents or a supportive partner, diving into such an uncertain path with such a low chance of “making it” is incredibly risky.

This is something I’ve come to understand at 35, now that opera is only a part-time job for me—or rather, a side job. The idea of moving to another country without a stable income, without connections, just to “find yourself in the opera world" (this can take more than a year!) sounds almost impossible without serious financial backing. Honestly, I don’t think many people would—or even could—do that... This is my humble opinion, maybe I'm wrong.

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Glenn Winters's avatar

"They’re not telling you that you might end up broke and in a foreign airport". I'm no opera singer, but that happened to me, lol. My first Operafestival di Roma was 1999. I sang Don Alfonso and was chorus master for Cosí. Returning home, I had to catch a connecting flight out of Frankfurt. Problem: the flight was cancelled, rescheduled for the following day.I was virtually broke, with only enough cash to place a call to my wife. If Lufthansa hadn't provided meal vouchers and a hotel room, I'd have been in deep doo-dpo. The lesson, children? Don't be like Glenn! 😏😁

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